• April 29, 2024

To know if a man and a woman can be "just friends" or reach a "romance", researchers from the University of Wisconsin They questioned 88 university students. The conclusion was that the women he fall in love less of their friends and they feel more attraction for them.

According to this investigation , from the masculine point of view it is very probable that there is more than a simple friendship. While from the feminine thought it is possible to be alone friends .

But as for every rule there is an exception knows some signals that indicate if you havein love from your best friend , according Helen Fisher , anthropologist of the Rutgers University in United States.

1. You feel that you are someone "special"

If you have fallen in love with your best friend you will probably start thinking that it is "unique". Love changes the areas of the brain associated with obsessive thinking and reward. This makes you tend to focus on your positive qualities and evade the negative side.

2. You talk or write to him all the time

You want to be in contact all the time, so you look for every opportunity to tell him any detail that has happened to you or just to say hello because you feel you miss him.

3. You think a lot about him

According to the anthropologist, a strong signal that you are in love is that you think a lot about him. On average, you spend around 85% of your time remembering it, thinking about your friend or planning activities to spend time together.

4. You seek to surprise him or spoil him with a gift

You simply remember him and want to surprise him with small gifts, from a sweet, book or any other detail that you know he will like.

5. You are an unconditional support

You are his great and maximum support in all aspects of his life, you are always there when he needs you. You even change your plans to please or help him.

6. You are worried about your love life

If you notice that you best friend have a particular interest for someone else you feel jealousy and you start with subtle criticisms, reproaches and easily get angry with him.

7. Your friends make comments about both

Yes when you go out with a group of friends or relatives and he accompanies you, the others make you comments like: "They make a beautiful couple", "They are the one for the other" or "They get along very well ...", it is a sign that a spark of romanticism springs up between you.

The friendships They are one of the greatest joys and gifts of life, but when you start to feel something special for your best friend It is preferable to wait and let time define the situation, since you could also confuse love with love.