• May 2, 2024

Review, infidelity , aggression, the signs may be there, but in many cases we refuse to see that we are in a dangerous relationship. There is also the possibility of not knowing what these signs mean from our partner and of ourselves.

In the couples that live violence , we are talking about an asymmetric relationship, of power between people and although violence can be exercised in many ways and its consequences can be manifested in various types of damage, all violent acts have in common the submission and the control of the other party, "says an investigation of the Autonomous University of San Luis Potosí.

Love Hurts?

Love or fear by recognizing reality can lead you to ignore some features of the character of the couple that indicate risk. Therefore, we present some signals, with information from the Spanish Institute of Aggression and Family. Beware!

1. Braggart . It shows a low tolerance to frustration, can not delay or postpone the immediate obtaining of pleasure . Planning is minimal, as is the consideration of other alternatives and they seem to get bored and uneasy with great ease. When things go as you want, you can behave nicely, wittily or smart .

2. Abusive or sadistic. Many people distance themselves from these individuals, as they feel intimidated by their brusque and belligerent forms. They perceive them as cold people and insensitive to the feelings of others and who get great pleasure competing and humiliating.

3. Voluble. Although this type of people need attention and affection, they act in an unpredictably contrary, manipulative and labile way in their personal relationships. In a frantic reaction to his fear of abandonment and loneliness, they behave in an angry and explosive manner, endangering their safety and that of their partner.

4. Everyone is against him. Not only do they hold a grudge and do not forget those with whom they have been related in the past, but they also present a quarrelsome, reluctant and problematic attitude towards the newly known, under the patent distrust and defensive surveillance.

Human beings are not conditioned to suffer pain or abuse. Remember, nobody deserves it and you are the only person who can determine what you want in your relationship and future. Beware!