• April 30, 2024

It has happened to you that the person who attracts you so much invites you to leave and, after a few weeks or months, you suddenly lose contact, you stop knowing about him and all you feel is his absence , but, why it hurts that the man you love no longer looks for you ?

This type of situations that lead to a deep pain , sadness and even depression they are understandable Science says that suffer for forgetfulness and romantic love is something normal, since the area of brain that processes physical pain also takes care of emotional .

The amygdala -Part of brain deep where basic emotions such as anger, fear and instinct are established survival - fixes more intensely the situations that were given too much importance, and the more remember will be sent signals of pain , it states Antoine Bechara, professor of psychology and neuroscience at the University of Southern California .

Let emptiness be an opportunity!

In addition, the pain Emotional works like a warning so as not to get close to a certain type of man or woman that can hurt emotionally .

When the man we love no longer looks for us, he also resents because there is a lot bitterness Y anger . Even the perception of the future changes thinking that it does not make sense, in some cases, the pain it is not overcome even though a lot of time has passed.

The unions social networks are closely linked to pain physical to ensure that the human being remains connected with the rest. When we are separated from a relationship, or a group rejects us, it is very painful so we try avoid it ", Explain Naomi Eisenberger, researcher at the University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA) in United States.

Many times, the empty What remains after the absence of the desired person is explained by the high expectations that were had in the relationship and what was positively believed to happen in the future .

The important is differentiate between the desire projected in that person and the reality What was there in the relationship? Take into account that when there is a interest sincere hardly someone you leave .

This type of experience allows reflect in the opportunities that can be achieved - such as being more selective and not anticipating an uncertain relationship - as well as the emotional maturity you gain, beyond seeing them as a failure . 

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