• May 8, 2024

¿Infidels virtual? Every time more cases of couples that they separate when one of the members of the same one discovers the erotic internáuticas incursions of the other.

The "guilty" often adduce that nothing has happened, that the exchange with that other man or that other woman has not gone beyond a back and forth of messages on-line.

Less serious the virtual infidelity?

The reality is that the occasions when the real encounter occurs are usually counted. A large part of the people who "conquer "Via social networks, WhatsApp, chats, among others, do not specify a physical encounter with their virtual conquest, delimiting the erotic or sentimental exchange to the web.

This does not mean that "cyber-infidelity" is less "serious" or less painful than the real one. It will depend on each couple and their agreement how to continue, or not, from the discovery of it.

What usually seduce of these wiggles in the network, in addition to the fantasy, is the projection of an ideal in that other one that is on the other side of the screen, in contrast to what one has at home: a person already known (very probably dear), but that it no longer offers the adrenaline that this stranger usually offers.

Experts agree that discover your own partner In these virtual flirtations, it usually has the same emotional impact as discovering the physical and tangible fact.

The truth is that the manifestation of this unfaithful behavior often comes hand in hand with other problems: dissatisfaction with routine, with the relationship current or any of its facets, the desire to meet someone new, the test of the ability to seduce. Variables, which can be combined or not in what, for the deceived is usually a staggering betrayal: the infidelity on-line.

Identify virtual infidels

Some habitual behaviors of the "infidels Virtual "and that can serve as a guide to identify them are:

1. They spend countless hours in front of the computer and often lose track of what is happening around them. While the rest of the family sleeps, they are in front of the machine.
2. It has less and less communication with its surroundings.
3. They startle when interrupted by chatting or talking.
4. They usually have all their gadgets blocked with a password: cell phone, tablet, desktop PC.
5. They erase even the smallest record of their cyber activity.
6. They live slaves on their mobile phone and take it with them to the bathroom.
7. They usually assign fancy names to their conquests.

The other side of the coin of the infidelity virtual are the couple search sites. Those who subscribe to a site with these characteristics are looking for a love, not a hobby. And you, have you been unfaithful over the internet?
 

Video Medicine: Rethinking infidelity ... a talk for anyone who has ever loved | Esther Perel (May 2024).