• May 3, 2024

Each person has different behaviors according to their context of life, emotional aspects, as well as their couple and emotional history; However, certain specific characteristics of infidelity in men are observed, says the specialist Elsy Reyes .

In an interview for GetQoralHealth, Elsy Reyes, communicator specialist in sexuality and relationships, notes that according to various American studies, the tendency to infidelity is more frequent in men.

Know the features of infidelity!

The expert points out that, although this behavior is not generalized in all men, the most common characteristics of infidelity are:

1. Hypervigilantes of your partner. They are very jealous. Try to be in control of your friends, work and the people your partner can frequent. Sometimes it is so subtle that it is difficult to identify it because the woman can take it as "she cares for me, she tries, she takes care of me".
2. Changes in the routine. They start arriving later at home, they have activities that they did not have before, other groups of friends and they adjust their lives so that infidelity is not perceived as easy.
3. Escape intimacy. A person who lies tries to escape from situations where there is greater intimacy, where they are questioned about their behavior.
4. Sexual contact is reduced. The fact that you have an additional partner (lover) decreases the frequency of sexual contact with the stable partner, such as the girlfriend or wife, because it is more focused on the infatuation of the parallel partner.

In addition, Elsy Reyes explains that an unfaithful man begins to move away from the family, the children, that is, they need more space to be physically and mentally removed from the family circle to continue with the parallel life they are leading.

The fact that a person searches for something outside of their home does not mean that their sex or partner life is damaged; in many these people only fill emotional gaps, ego, unresolved situations and that they are trying to cover with unofficial partners.

"He who wants to be unfaithful is, that is, you can not protect yourself from your partner not being unfaithful because it will not depend on you. Obviously, the health of a relationship depends on both, that there is adequate communication and intimacy, negotiations, "says the specialist.

Live your relationship in an appropriate way, give what you have to give of you and if you get to give an infidelity, rest assured that it has nothing to do with you, because it is not a question of which you can avoid it, says Elsy Reyes.

The expert believes that one must learn to express fidelity, that is, make an explicit contract between couples, where it is clear the value that this aspect of the relationship has for us and not give it by a tacit agreement. And you, have you ever been unfaithful?

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