• April 26, 2024

Although the idea that they "always want" has always taken root, the situation is not so simple. Circumstances change and the reasons why the mens can refuse to have sex They range from the physical to the emotional.

In accordance with Fernando Villadangos , clinical psychologist and couple therapist author "Male sexuality" , one of the most frequent problems he faces in his profession is the lack of sexual desire male.

In many cases, they feel the pressure too much. Many men are shocked that a woman may have more desire for sex than he does. They still cling to their traditional role and are a bit bewildered. "

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Body and mind in trouble

To better understand the situation, if your partner or you are going through it, we present some of the reasons why the mens they say no to sex .

1. Depression In accordance with David McKenzie , sexual therapist for the American Association of Sexuality Educators (AASECT) , this is one of the main causes of the death of sexual desire in men.

Fortunately the depression clinic is a disease physical, McKenzie explains that the key is patience, of both, the treatments are effective but contribute to low interest.

2. Sexual dysfunction. A man who goes through problems like this or the premature ejaculation You can get away from your partner for fear of disappointing her or thinking she is "less" man, indicates the therapist.

He recommends not avoiding the issue, although it may be difficult to talk, when a problem is not addressed in the couple, it can result in resentment. The love it is an important element in these cases.

3. Low self-esteem. Ian Kerner , counselor of sexuality author of "Sex recharge" , points out that the sexual impulse of a man is bound to his self esteem in a high degree. When one suffers, the other suffers; money, employment and other factors that hurt you emotionally can reduce your libido .

The expert states that about 98% of men say that their lack of sexual interest is not related to how they feel about their partners.

Video Medicine: SPIRIT, SOUL and BODY, YOUR GREATEST TROUBLE by Dr Myles Munroe (April 2024).