• May 5, 2024

About 40% of people who are in a relationship they become cooperative of their partner , the main reason why they convert their habits romantic and healthy in vices of love

At the beginning of the relationship are adopted habits of attention towards partner , that when they are carried out excessively they lead to serious defects, which affect the individuality and love , indicates in interview to GetQoralHealth , Pablo Verde , psychotherapist graduated from Marist University .

Some of the habits that become vices More commonly, according to Verde, they are:

1. Communicate to know how is

Call, message, write on social networks more than once a day , in each, exceeds the line of what healthy . The situation is critical when interrupt the activities everyday to occupy the time in find out what the couple does

2. Be completely honest

Not having any "secret" within the relationship can be sickly , because you lose the individuality . Situations like check the cell phone or computer of the couple become common under the excuse "If you have nothing to hide, this does not matter".

3. Share all things

At the beginning of the relationship is tolerable , and part of the conquest, watching movies, listening to music or visiting places that are not at all pleasant . But over time it becomes a vice for the couple wanting to do everything together, and before a negative, the problems begin.

4. Give in all

There will be times when you can give to avoid problems , like going to a meeting with unpleasant people, nevertheless doing it always and for everything turns the person into a passive of the relationship, which forgets what really wants .

5. Deal with small "insults"

Play with shoves or addressing the couple with vulgarities of "joke", easily becomes a vice , which leads to aggressions older and in extreme cases to the violence . These attitudes are not normal.

6. Spending for love

The fact of being a partner does not imply investing all the salary in gifts and attentions. The relationship also requires a Balance for both, besides that doing so does not guarantee or have love , or feel it.

Long live love!

So that you avoid falling into vices of love, the specialist shares these tips.

1. Learn to separate interests and if you decide to "acquire" certain activities from your partner , which are the ones that really like

2. I always know Honest about what you want, and what not.

3. When you solve problems, consider the feelings from your partner . He assertive by expressing your ideas.

4. Talk about everything with your partner , until the details that you create "dumb", so you will save many confusions .

These kinds of problems begin to appear when starting the second year of the relationship, when an individual maturity is acquired and the love evolves, ceases to be infatuation , to strengthen or destroy .

Follow Pablo Verde on @pabloverdeG

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