What makes you mad?

• April 27, 2024

It is common that at some point in life, friends and comadres, focus on getting the health of your heart, emotional and even physical; However, this does not mean that they get it, it is possible that in some cases all the effort culminates in negative attitudes that cause many to get mad.

So you have to turn on the detector of negative or undesirable attitudes, which avoids being subject to the inspiration of others, besides helping you to discover the situations that affect all types of relationships and reduce the way in which you develop before others.

María Villegas and Jennie Kent, authors of the book Vademécum Mujeres, by Villegas Editores, They explain some of the most popular attitudes that can turn us into a real headache for others:

1. Invent apologies. That is to say, to be a powerful machine of pretexts, when we do not respond to a call, an email, we are late for an appointment or we flatly apply the platón, and we excuse ourselves with something like "I ran out of cell phone signal", "I crashes when the Internet fails "or" how strange, I swear I did send it to you ", it is time to turn to see the responsibility and leave the lies to one side because we are starring a piece of paper.

2. Being a puppet Who does not remember Miss Piggy? The very in love with the friendly frog René, who lost no opportunity to speak well of herself and boast qualities with the sole result of being unbearable.

That of walking with the air of an Oscar multi-leader on a red carpet is not good for coexistence or communication, nothing more elegant than delicate simplicity and prudence.

3. Be ungrateful. It is not about bringing the spirit of Thanksgiving or Christmas, but to be up to the circumstances with those people who have given us from support, understanding to deep love. Thanks are never left over and if they prove to be much better, the philosopher Seneca said: "In order to act, the one who gives must forget soon and the one who receives, never".

4. Always have the need to win. The downside of this situation is not having a strong competitive spirit -for that there is sport, baby-, but in not knowing how to lose, as well as maintaining the desire to always be in the lead, examples?

From an innocent board game, to be in full conversation with a colleague, steal the word to say that you are more in love, sick, happy, worried, etc., depending on the issue in question.

5. Be negative. After a few days of not seeing a co-worker, who can say was with a smooth complexion and shiny hair, I asked how interested he was, to which he answered sharply: "surviving", what?

I thought immediately, she was fine, no tragedy happened in her life, only that she lived with negative attitudes, that she had the virtue of seeing a problem in each solution, as well as something bad, in the good.

The authors explain that everyone has days with much or no fortune, but we must maintain a good attitude towards life, be more productive, and thus achieve a better state of health, as well as harmony -even happiness- in the relationships that we have in all areas. "Prudence empowers your words" Bojorge@teleton.org.mx