Stop feeling that you failed

Going to any wedding being single was not a problem for you until, like an epidemic, your friends get married one after another and you question yourself, why? your friends get married and you do not ?

 

When you're single and your friends too, fun is guaranteed because everyone understands each other perfectly; but as soon as they begin to marry, the dynamics change and many friendships could fracture.

It is easier to cancel the boyfriend than the husband and the departures with single friends no longer exist because they are seen by society (and especially spouses) as opportunities to link, "says Eduardo López Valencia, psychologist and professor at the School of Psychology of the UNAM.

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For the also expert in emotional communication know how to handle the fact thatyour friends get married and you do not , is key so you do not end up frustrating, depressed and stay without friends. These are some strategies for you to start putting them into practice.

 

Stop feeling that you failed

Do not think that by marrying your friends they are more successful than you. Marriage is not an indicator of success, nor that they will be together all their lives. Define your success depending on your own parameters.


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