• April 27, 2024

This article should be read by all the men of the world. They, who always complain that nobody understands the women . If only they knew that a little empathy is the solution to breaking down those "communication barriers" that sometimes arise between the two!

In a recent article, Barbara Markway, renowned doctor of clinical psychology in the United States, He presented six keys so that men can understand women. So, if you have a partner who thinks that you are more difficult than the Theory of Relativity, or you know some "foolish man" who accuses "the woman without reason", share this article. You will not regret!

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Dear men:

1. Make them feel connected . According to Barbara Markway, women want to make sure that the relationship "is on solid ground." After a period of separation (even one day), the specialist recommends that men establish that closeness as soon as possible:

And everything after will flow more freely. " For example, "if you come home exhausted from a long day of work and your partner wants to talk, try to say something like: 'I'm so glad to see you, I missed you'" and then tell him that you're tired and you need a few minutes to relax before they can talk calmly. " Easy, right?

2. Do not ignore the problems . The expert says that, if you are not sure of what happens to your partner at any given time, "it's okay to ask", and recommends saying something like: "It seems that you are very angry. Would you like to tell me? ", Instead of just asking" what's wrong? "... because you already know the answer.

3. Show a little empathy. Instead of taking rejection as something personal and pressuring the woman to have sex more often, Markway suggests that it is better to consider the possible reasons for this coldness and that they may have nothing to do with them.

4. Think how much they work . If you see her tired often, think about how much you contribute in tasks such as cooking, shopping, cleaning the home, doing laundry and taking care of the children, regardless of whether the women work inside or outside the home. Instead of speculating, better give ideas and help reduce the burden.

5. Allows you to express your fears. "Women feel empowered by their meaningful relationships. Your attitude of concern will contribute to your partner's success in achieving their goals. She does not need you to dissuade her from her fears, or to solve her problems: she only wants you to listen to her and understand her, "explains the expert.

6. Understand that communication is a process . Barbara Markway believes that men should "look at communication problems as an invitation to keep talking, keep listening and, finally, resolve things."

 
Men and women can communicate very differently, "but the potential is still there to reach even higher levels of understanding and interest," he adds. At the end of the day, what is involved is to communicate more and better, do not you think?

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