• April 26, 2024

We usually believe that by being Honest , we put at risk a friendship or affective bond, and we are left with those concerns, and therefore, with the initial conflict.

Given this, Dr. Óscar Galicia Castillo, from the psychology department of the Ibero-American University of Mexico City, explains that, situations of this type have an explanation: "By nature we humans have empathic ability, that is to say that we are capable of feeling ourselves in the place of the other.

For that reason we flee from conflicts and more when we meet the other person, since we do not want to hurt or be rude, however, it is also not fair for someone to tolerate bad attitudes or irresponsibility. "
 

The way to say it is the key

If something does not work and it is necessary to manifest it, it is essential to address it directly and clearly. However, the detail is, just how we transmit the concerns and the way we express them.

For the specialist, these are 5 details that must be taken into account if we want to be clear and direct, without encouraging an altercation with someone we deal with on a daily basis:

1. You have to be constructive . That is, it translates into seeing things with objectivity, and always thinking about how to look for solutions, rather than finding conflicts.

2. Have an open attitude to talk, but also to listen, because maybe, in the debate, we find that there are mistakes on both sides. The objective is to encourage the proposal and be totally inclusive.

3. Do not think for others. Put aside the idea that the other person will have a bad time because of our guilt , It's fundamental. On the other hand, we must bear in mind that everyone has their responsibilities and must comply with them without needing the "whip".

4. You have to be clear and direct without forgetting that the respect and good manners must always reign.

5. Separate personal, work or family aspects . In many cases a wake-up call or a truthful comment is enough to cause friction with others. In this sense, it is important to clarify that we are not looking for trouble, on the contrary, all we want is to improve the environment and obtain better results.

Communicating effectively is essential to achieve our goals. If we know how to do it properly, it depends on our relations they are strengthened or become involved in speculations and rodeos.

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