Verbalization vs. Resentment

• April 26, 2024

Every day there are situations between the members of the families, between the couples, between the brothers, the children and the parents. When these are difficult, when there are injured, when some are angry or sad or have some resentment there is only one way: talk.

"Speaking the people understand". Yes, what makes the fear , the resentment or the anger is the misunderstandings and these are given by not verbalizing the emotions , for not expressing in words what we feel, what we think.

In that sense, we can say that words are blankets, that is, they clothe, calm and open possibilities by explaining to our partner what we are going through, by calming our children telling them how much we love them and how much we feel we have made a mistake.

Everything that is not verbalized generates anguish Y resentment . By speaking we listen to ourselves and open our hearts to others. Do not stay without asking for forgiveness, do not stay without explaining what you think, what in justice you think is happening. Do not leave those earrings that only make bigger wounds and gaps.

Speak with the heart Calmly, without shouting, without hurting. Listen to the needs of others. Show your truth and help others feel they can trust you. When we communicate we can unite, we can help each other, we can establish common goals. When we explain our position we are able to be understood.

Language is our means to create that bridge that can bring us closer to those we love and leave resentment behind. Do not be afraid of the speech, be afraid of silence, of secrecy, of what is not said: that is really cold. And you, how do you carry communication with your loved ones?

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