• April 29, 2024

A infidelity breaks with an essential element in the relationship: the trust . However, its effect is more dramatic because it not only ends with the sentimental situation, but emotionally harms the other person. Even though, Who cheats once, will he do it again?

Be unfaithful, it is simply to break the trust of the couple when they keep secrets away from the intimate conjugal. In short, we are unfaithful to our partner when we we lie consciously and knowing that our behavior is not correct, "says Esteban Cañamares, psychologist and expert sexologist in relationship.

 

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According to a study by the University of Denver , a partner who has cheated on his partner in the past is 3.4 times more likely to be unfaithful in a later relationship.

With the participation, during five years, of 484 of people of both sexes, the investigation also affirms that (although it is difficult to believe because the signs of infidelity ) people who have been betrayed are more likely to leave or to enter into a new relationship with "womaniegas" or infidel people.

Also, even if the current partner is not unfaithful, whoever has experienced this situation tends to feel jealousy, less trust and commitment, due to the fears and resentments that he has not left behind.

It is therefore important to be able to face the possibility that you or your partner may have problems to maintain fidelity, this will allow you to have more control over the things that can happen.

When it is mistakenly perceived that love has ended in the relationship, Because the sexual and romantic intensity of the first steps in a relationship is no longer given, it tends to infidelity. The reality is that, in couples healthy, as time passes, love transforms into greater commitment, intimacy and confidence, "says Cañamares.

Only you can choose to be unfaithful or not, and if it's worth it to harm your partner and relationship. Beware!