Have you met someone who commonly tells you "what you need is ..."? Beware, this is one of the characteristics of a person controller , in accordance with Judith Orloff , professor of psychiatry University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA) .
Controlling people always try to dictate how you should be and feel. And they control you invalidating your emotions if they do not fit into your 'rulebook', "says Orloff in a magazine article. Psychology Today .
The controllers they can disguise their control very well as a concern for you, that's why it's important that you know some habits that betray a person like that. They also behave the same with themselves, so if you pay a little attention you can recognize them.