Take advantage of this moment!

You've already got to wear saints! You'll be aunt spinster !, The train has gone! Do you sound familiar with these phrases? These thoughts are a belief, it is not real. There is nothing to prove that a person after 30 or 40 years can not find a partner permanent for the rest of his life.

In an interview for GetQoralHealth, Dr. Mario Guerra, partner specialist for Match , details that there is something called the "stigma of the stay", which is when women reach an age where the end of reproductive life is approaching and they do not have partner .

 

"This is very unfortunate because it reduces women to their reproductive capacity," says the specialist. "It's one thing for you to reproduce and have children and another to have a partner."

It usually comes hand in hand that you find a partner and have children, but currently there are very diverse relationship models such as wanting to have a partner without conceiving children or giving priority to the race before the couple.

 

Take advantage of this moment!

If you do not have partner You should not take it negatively, on the contrary, take advantage of this time of autonomy and independence to enjoy being with yourself, do what you want without having to consult or negotiate with someone else.

 

"Realize that it is a stereotype, a stigma. There is nothing that prevents a woman from being happy and looking for love at any age, "says Mario Guerra.

However, if you care too much about social judgment or the pressures of others, it is time to visit a specialist to find the reason why you should please others, maybe you find the real reason why you do not have partner .