• May 1, 2024

In a society like the one we live in today, it is still very common that roles of women and men are predetermined. Thus, traditionally they must go to work, continue to develop professionally and provide for the home, while she remains at home, takes care of this and the children.

However, the same economic dynamics and Social It awakens other needs and concerns that should not be left aside, simply by thinking that it is no longer time to change or take new paths.
 

May he boost your dreams ...

Teacher Ricardo Trujillo, academic at the Faculty of Psychology of the National Autonomous University of Mexico (UNAM), explains that in Mexican culture the idea prevails that men have to be the providers.

"It is very difficult for the male to get out of that logic, because they arise thoughts that he is not fit to sustain his family and that affects his position of power, besides being a blow to his vanity ", Precise.

It's never too late

Professor Ricardo Trujillo indicates that to establish a positive dialogue and raise interest in undertaking new projects, it is necessary to find objectives.

"An awareness with the partner , making it clear that this common goal can be modified. There must be a very intimate and profound conversation so that the man have the opportunity to become aware and move away from that idea of ​​being a provider and having power over women, so that she can access her personal development, "she says.

For example, studying something new, in addition to turning it into a woman more satisfied with herself, can lead her to have a better relationship with her children, to contribute something different and even have a better communication, because the experience of learning it will be something they will have in common.

Likewise, an activity that is remunerated, far from being a threat, represents a economical support and the possibility of facing an emergency, such as lack of employment or a contingency due to illness. This will place it in a fair position and will make it a stronger pillar within the home .

Achieving a dialogue with your partner should result in mutual support and understanding, allowing both to enjoy an improvement in the quality of life derived from the realization of their personal projects.

"If an honest reflection is made of what I like, what I want and where I want to go, that will eliminate guilt and will make it more responsible for the core family r, in addition to giving greater weapons to be able to negotiate with the couple without impacting negatively, "concludes the teacher in Psychology.

The power of the word, the clear ideas and the search that el own well-being impact also on the family contribute to sensitize to the couple about the importance of accompanying them to pursue their desires. If you manage to make this combination, you will most likely find a very powerful ally to start your journey.

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