And after a divorce?

• May 17, 2024

How often do we read about men's emotional or mental problems after a divorce? Almost never, in the eyes of society, men must keep emotions and solve their problems privately, without ever asking for help or need to read an article that guides them.

Due to the above, it is also rare to hear or read about the mistakes that divorced men commit during that time in their lives. Therefore, we present three of those bad decisions or actions that men commit after a divorce.

1. Hurrying to the altar

After a divorce, men like to leave habits, break patterns and do things for themselves, since before they had counted on everything when they arrived at a house, in which food is ready, clean clothes, and the children are happy.

It may sound a bit old-fashioned, but many men like to have a woman nearby for the reasons mentioned above or simply for the company. It is therefore common to get married again with the first woman who crosses in front of you, without even knowing the person well or taking time to discover if they are compatible.

2. Become a playboy

This situation can be quite pleasant, because after several years the freedom to do what they please. Unfortunately this practice becomes boring after a divorce and of a certain time.

In addition, there are endless risks that come with this lifestyle, it is proven that the herpes it is a much more common disease in people divorced, separated and widowed . Despite age, people still have the same desires as regards casual sex it means.

In addition to the risks involved in casual sex , there are also unwanted pregnancies , which may arise as a result of a night of passion with someone who was used simply as a quick remedy to cure the feeling of loneliness that comes after a divorce.

3. Present your children very fast

Sometimes men feel the urge to recover the family unit without thinking about the pain this can cause their children , for whom divorce has been more than enough, emotionally speaking.

Children love their parents and in the end they keep the illusion that they are reconciled. Therefore, it is necessary to give them time to get used to their new lifestyle before introducing them to a new person after a divorce.

These three mistakes can help you understand what a man is going through after a divorce. In that sense, it is important to recover both personal and professional life in an intelligent way and not be carried away only by new illusions.

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