Recovers the ludic sense of the relationship

There are several elements that make the partner lose that part of the conquest -seduction . However, there are ways to recover the playful sense of the relationship . You can give a whole turn to your coexistence daily with these infallible keys .

 

The playful sense in the partner is the game of conquest-seduction . The man conquest and the woman seduces . However, there are elements that break with this game " it states Enrique Mesa Cabrera, specialist in personal transformation and facilitator of SukhaTotal .

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Recovers the ludic sense of the relationship

In interview for Health18 0, Enrique Mesa exposes the factors that provoke what a relationship lose that sense of attraction Y conquest .

 

  1. Formalization. The firm of a paper or live together It is one of the elements critics which leads to to lose the link Y game in couple. Under these new circumstances, they arise changes in the mentality of the couples that cause the loss of Attention in the constant conquest-seduction , so they stop caring or to appreciate .
  2. Responsibility. It's a side effect of it formalization . Living together, assume compromises economic, the care of the children causes the taste for relationship . The stability that lasts about one to two years buries the passion under a hill responsibilities .
  3. Confusion between freedom and independence. The commitment strengthens the freedom because it is a respect towards oneself and towards the other. A partner it can be completely free and in the love allow the other to have their own space .
  4. Need to create desire. It is necessary to create a healthy distance so that the other attracts you. Allow yourself a healthy space where there is an area of passion and coexistence passionate , but everyone has their life Independent and free to share with friends or family.

However, before this everydayness , there is behaviors Y thoughts that can be transform to take care and recover the sense playful of the relationship . These are some keys .

 

  1. Do not rush with formalization. Understand that the relationship is an individual bond between two people, so it is advisable not to formalize and formalize if the only link that one is love.
  2. Be independent Choose to live in a couple that is a personal decision in which you should avoid dependence, both professionally and in the economic sense. It is important to understand that the responsibility must be personal and non-transferable.
  3. Do not lose the fantasy. Maintaining the ability to dream with the couple and walk towards the subtle is extremely important to maintain the seduction and conquest. Look for the sensitivity towards the subtle, towards the most sophisticated and deviate from the path of violence.

For Enrique Mesa It is essential to understand that passion It is that ability to perceive and see yourself in the other. From the coexistence in partner arrive at a self-knowledge and recognize yourself as a sensitive being and Independent .

The passion in the partner is the game of seduction-conquest ; before this game concentrate on that to love or to wish the couple is fundamental . What actions do you take in partner to maintain the desire to stay together ?


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