• May 2, 2024

That popular phrase "in the love everything goes "seems to be a good excuse for certain people who take advantage of the romance to only benefit. But how do you know if someone is with you interest or for real love?

"Convenerial" men are complicated to identify at first. Courtesy: Gettyimages

According to a study published in Evolution & Human Behavior , the way the mens to move and the extra verbal signals they emit are decisive for women to see them attractive . Factor that is exploited very well by the "gold diggers".

Love, but not for you

The signs may seem very obvious, but taking into account that the love "Blind", it is worth describing some of those that specialists in the field point out.

1. You pay for everything. Diana Kirschner , author psychologist "Love in 90 days" , says that at the beginning he will behave like a gentleman with the goal of winning, so it will be difficult to identify it. But with the passage of time you are the one pay the accounts of all your exits.

2. It is only available when you want something. Your boy looks for you, but the motive that moves him is a necessity (economic or other support) that wants you to solve it, otherwise if you try to contact him he is occupied .

3. You have debts. It's not a bad thing that people usually have debts in these times, but it's a bad sign if you partner He always asks you for help to liquidate his commitments and until now you have not seen that money back.

Kirschner says that to get out of doubt, try to find out your economic history; usually the men who are conveners blame to your ex couples of your situation.

4. Their tastes are "expensive". Nicole Johnson , specialist in relations of partner , says that a man who is going out for money tends to propose all the time departures to go purchases , traveling together or even eating in expensive restaurants, without him putting a single peso for it.

5. Your kitchen is your "dining room". While in a partner It is common for things to be shared, while there is no more formal commitment to the fact that he shows up at your house whenever his stomach feel hungry instead of inviting you to eat or feed yourself is a key point.

6. Never comply Being unemployed does not mean that you are just looking for your money , but if you do not have ambitions to improve your situation and you agree with your being their provider of resources, despite the support you provide to overcome, you have a serious problem at your side.

7. It proposes you to move to your home. They only have a few months to get to know each other and he already wants to live with you: because he pays rent but he does not have enough, he does not want to live alone or he does not support spending more days without you, do you really believe that?

Avoid falling into their games and pay attention to how to know if you are with you interest , the love It's a complicated subject and they can be very good at pretending. You must not forget that being single It does not mean being alone, and that it will always be better than living deceived.

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