• April 16, 2024

This week the breakup of the singer Taylor Swift and the talented Calvin Harris was revealed after 15 months of courtship in which they spilled love everywhere. Although both have not wanted to give statements about their appearances in public denote sadness on both sides.

Every loss involves a pain and when it comes to breaking up with a relationship or marriage there are always emotional wounds difficult to overcome, but what is it that leads to mistakes when ending a relationship?

About, Lois Tarter , author of The Divorce Ritual, considers that finish a relationship it's easy to feel depressed Y single , however, how important it is to know how to move forward and overcome it to recover the freedom and not commit mistakes that may have undesirable consequences .

To know the mistakes most common that you have to break with the partner , we share the following video of Neurosurgery , in which Dr. Eduardo Calixto Explains six mistakes we made with the "ex" to try an encounter or revenge.

What you can avoid

Lois Tarter recommends certain habits to get out of that pain and understand that it was a stage that has already happened, assimilate it to open possibilities of a new relationship in which they avoid committing the mistakes of the past.

1. Save the duel. An error is to start a relationship and maintain sexual intercourse with another person to feel relief or satisfaction personal, that should not be the appropriate reason. Start to meet different people, renew your social circle and when you are sure to go out with someone, do it.

2. Close cycles. The author of The Divorce Ritual advise assume that the relationship finished , but for no reason should you feel pity of you; neither try to look for it when the reality is that he wants to continue with his life, quiet, without you.

3. Let the sadness flow. The pain It is inevitable and natural; all the weather Y moments shared will be longed for that reason it recognizes the sadness that causes you, cries if it is your desire, this helps to end soon with those feelings , just take care that they do not last for months. Search one reason for follow .

There is not recipes no magic formulas to accept the loss. The really important thing is that you do not fool yourself and look disguise a intention sincere with the fact of wanting force a meeting with the. If it's you wish , you will overcome it without committing mistakes most common at the end of a relationship .