• May 2, 2024

Not only is it a loving break, a divorce leaves behind dreams, goals and moments that for a moment of life also belonged to two people. However, it is also an opportunity to find new illusions, so it is important that the first date be a pleasant experience.

According to National Institute of Statistics and Geography (INEGI), in the last decade the amount of marriages held at national level has decreased by 19.3%, on the other hand, divorces they have increased by 74%.

It is always a good time to try

It can be difficult to face a "First appointment" after a divorce. However, remember that it is not because you come from a failure but that you have learned from a painful experience. Now, if your choice is to give a new opportunity here we give you some keys with information of the communication expert Lourdes Ruiz Toledo.

1. That the first topic of conversation is not your divorce . Concentrate on your new life, not the "old" one.

2. Quiet but safe. Make a pleasant conversation, do not attack him with a list of intense questions that make him feel the target of an interrogation session. The first appointment is to see the chemistry that may exist between them and discover their personality.

3. Everything in its time. To have fun and enjoy the company of that person is not necessary to go to bed on the first date. What's more, avoid talking about sex or make two-way jokes. Do not feel pressured or hurry to take that step.

4. Show who you are and how important you are to you. Get dressed according to your personality. Do not try to be someone who is not just to impress him. If you are looking for something more than a sexual relationship, then let her look at who you are and not at your physical attributes.

5. Live the moment. Let me open the door of the car, of the restaurant, grab your arm to help you enter or leave. Give the man the opportunity to be a gentleman, let him pay the bill. Allow man to treat you as the special person you are.

Remember that the time to have your first date after divorce You can only decide it. Beware!