Is the fault of modernity?

The tricks in the partner they are not something new, in all the times they have happened, although at present the variant can be the medium whereby it is carried out: social networks .

 

The psychologist Hans Olvera , Professor at the Universidad Iberoamericana, explain what 30% of the couples who live amorous ruptures It is cause of tricks through these means of communication .

This trend is due to the fact that cities , 85% of people have access to a computer with connection to Internet , according to a survey conducted by the Mexican agency Strategic Communications Cabinet .

 

Is the fault of modernity?

One of the risks of communication in social networks is that by not having the receiver of information in front of you, it is all through conversations through messages , the person takes a certain value to say or propose Things that would not be done with the same ease.

 

Several couples review the mobile in any oversight to be sure that everything is going well, although sometimes it is not like that and they take a pleasant surprise.

In those moments the reaction The most common is anger and start linking events, such as the day the partner He mentioned that he had to go somewhere and they did not see or know anything about each other all day.

 

The mind link all these situations and generate stories that although they may be far from reality, they are taken as truths , regardless of whether there is scam , He says Hans Olvera .

And on a large scale, the problem is that although everything remains in writing, the mind of the alleged victim of infidelity gets more involved, and generates more pain that if he had found the partner infraganti.

It would be enough ground between the partner , but when it comes to a cybernetic deception there is no real limit, because it revive the conversations and again.

In cities, 85% of people have access to a computer with an internet connection