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April 2024
We all like to be paid attention when we talk or live with someone, especially if it is our boyfriend or husband; however, there are times when you must ignore your partner for the sake of the relationship.
These occasions are justified to avoid a bigger problem, that everything takes its place or not to hurt ourselves.
Give him his space. It is better to let it reflect and calm down. Avoid phrases and questions such as: "What's wrong with you? Let's talk, you have to solve this ..."
Leave it alone and dedicate yourself to do your things, once you feel relaxed come and offer a coffee, a tea, go for a walk ... Although many times, it happens that he will end up approaching you.
First, leave those thoughts aside. Sometimes it is not leaving you to love, you simply have labor conflicts that you have not wanted to talk to or you feel very stressed.
Just remind him that you are there. Make him feel your absence, for example: omit details that you usually have, such as sending messages during the day.
Calling and sending messages without stopping to ask them to return will only take them further away. Give him that space he needs. It will be very difficult, but if he loves you he will come back and look for you.
Take advantage of these moments when you must ignore your partner , to enjoy yourself and analyze how your relationship is, as well as the things that would improve it.