• April 24, 2024

Call it "Sixth Sense" or intuition. The truth is that sometimes, when we meet someone with whom we barely exchange two sentences, there is something we do not like. We do not know how to explain what we do not like, but that person, of course, will not be part of our list of friendships.

There may be several factors that influence this situation, but, Is it possible that the reasons are scientific?

You do not want it close!

It is not something casual, our body and especially the brain Y hormones They can discover things about the other person that tell us that it is better to have it away from us. Here we reveal what science says.

1. Non-verbal language. Various investigations estimate that between 60 and 70% of what we communicate is done through the nonverbal language.

In the words of María Dolores Avia, professor of Psychology of the Complutense University of Madrid, "The nonverbal information of a person tells us many things: the way of dressing, if it is conventional, extremely timid, bland, excessively sympathetic, its body odor ... all that brings us more than the verbal part," he explains.

2. Intuition. For Gerardo Pastor, professor of Social Psychology of the Pontifical University of Salamanca, In addition to the physical part, we must also remember the importance of the psychic part, that is, "the brain always recognizes if they want to cheat us".

In this sense, women are much more intuitive that men and therefore more correct with first impressions; instead, men are smarter and better in the long term.

3. It can be a genetic problem . According to a study National Institute of Mental Health United States , there is Williams syndrome, which is produced by the absence of a fragment of a chromosome. This syndrome affects one in 20 thousand people and one of the symptoms it causes is that the brain acts excessively sociable, without identifyingl rejection or acceptance.

4. Brain detection. "The brain It detects instinctively, just for the physical aspect, if a person gives us good vibrations or not, it is a matter of survival, just as we reject certain foods or situations that cause us fear, "the scientists explain.

5. Few social skills. In the opinion of Dr. Avia, in addition, people who fall ill is usually unskilled socially speaking. The psychologist gives several examples: people who immediately begin to tell their private life or their problems fall ill.

Which criticize to third persons, those who only speak about themselves, those who are excessively sympathetic or pranksters, the indiscreet, those who talk all the time without letting others do it, those who pretend to be always right or those who think themselves superior to others. rest. Does it sound?

Remember that only you can decide who you like "bad or good". Choose the people you want by your side.