Why do we love who hurts us?

Today what many rumored was confirmed, a judge from Georgia in the United States, has declared "legally responsible" of the death of Bobbi Kristina Brown Nick Gordon, the young man with whom he had a relationship for more than three years.

The relatives of the daughter of Whitney Houston had presented a civil lawsuit against Gordon for supplying "a toxic cocktail" of drugs and abandon it in the bathtub. The 22-year-old girl was found unconscious in the tub at her home in Roswell, Georgia, on January 31, 2015 by Gordon and passed away on July 26 of last year.

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Now Nick Gordon , who had declared himself psychologically devastated by the loss of his partner, is awaiting the legal penalty for having abused physically and psychologically of his girlfriend.

 

Why do we love who hurts us?

What happened with the relationship of Bobbi Kristina Y Nick Gordon , the family members had identified him some time ago, but she I denied to separate from your partner. It is known as "Stockholm syndrome" and this happens in relationships where there is abuse and violence justified, that creates a emotional dependence that is confused with love.

According to the Department of Psychiatry at the University of London , a person who suffers from Stockholm syndrome begins to see the world from the point of view of the aggressor:

  • It appropriates the justifiers and lies of the abuser
  • He justify himself the abusive acts against him
  • Defend and a thanks attitudes of the aggressor
  • He isolates of family and friends
  • He does not realize that it is lost to herself

In Couple relationships abuse is often seen, it is a process of isolating the victim and "brainwashing" him with frease as "look what you force me to do" or "this is what you deserve."

Over time the victim It is believed that he deserves the abuse and until his actions are the cause.

 

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