What men want

How different are the wishes hidden from men with respect to women? According to the famous Viennese psychoanalyst, Sigmund Freud, men prefer to play an active role and passive women. Even more, Freud himself stated in his day that "only dissatisfied people fantasize, people happy They do not do it".

However, today it has been accepted by the entire psychological community that the sexual fantasies They are not the manifestation of a problem, but help to maintain a better life as a couple by favoring sexual desire

 

What men want

1 . According to a study conducted by Danielle Knafo and Y. Jaffe, one of the sexual fantasies most frequent in men is to keep more sexual intercourse and fantasize about a greater number of women at the time of intercourse.

2. Other research developed by Thomas V. Hicks and Harold Leitenberg of the University of Vermont, titled Sexual fantasies with the couple or with another person, reveals that among men it is frequent to fantasize about unknown, invented or famous people.

3. The same study points out that men tend to have fantasies centered on an explicit sexual imagery without a context emotional , while women focus on specific people with whom they feel a bond.

4. According to the researchers Harold Leitenberg and Kris Henning, in their fantasies men often play a more active role in the sexual relationship, while women prefer to adopt a more passive role.

These experts have considered that it is probably a consequence of the traditional social roles, according to which the man is obliged to take the first step, and of the common places adopted by the pornographic cinematography, in which this Manichean dichotomy is reproduced. man as active subject and woman as object.

5. Unlike women who care more about the plot of their fantasies, Men are more interested in the explicit images and the physical act itself.

Fantase a little, dream about something different or have wishes hidden serves to relieve sexual tension, eroticize our life as a couple and act spontaneously and fun in our relationshipDo not you think?
 


Video Medicine: What Men Want (2019) - Official Trailer - Paramount Pictures (March 2024).