Unwanted pregnancy triggers depression

In a relation of engagement Every principle has a point in common: between falling in love, illusion and the desire to stay together and alone most of the time, it can be very romantic to think that the best way to give one to the other is from the sexual intimacy .

Unfortunately, derived from this idyllic environment, the risks that can arise from holding relationships without responsibility are rarely considered, among them, the arrival of a baby that may not arrive in the right conditions.


With the announcement of a pregnancy , that environment in which love once floated, can become a trigger of instability, emotional violence and abandonment that, for obvious reasons, affects mainly the woman, who suddenly has to face a double blow: the loss of her partner and the enormous responsibility of facing the maternity in solitude and with the risk of being also marked and removed from her own family.


As the psychologist explains Mariana Rivera , for the young women who go through this experience, everything translates into a double conflict: "not only do they remain partner but also without the father of his son, facts that by themselves are generators of a state of depression which can be exacerbated by hormonal changes own pregnancy , without also considering that knowing someone else responsible not only in what corresponds to the upbringing but also in the economic causes anguish, because you do not always have the means to correct the situation you now face.


Regardless of the reasons your ex had to leave the ship, it is a fact that you can not count on him and that you should make the best of yourself to recover and respond in a positive way to this new experience.


The specialist maintains that it is important that you evaluate the current situation, with what elements you have to face motherhood and above all, you must take stock of your emotional state. Do not hesitate to seek help ideally, says the psychologist Mariana Rivera Within the family circle or nearby, if not, go to an institution dedicated to protecting pregnant women, here we give you some options, but it is essential that you have a protection network.


Once you are clear about which side of the court you have to play, it is time to define which path you are going to undertake, find agreements with your teachers so that you can continue with the school or give timely advice to your superiors in case that you work.


The challenge you have in front of you is great, but not so much that you get depressed and take for granted that you can not face it. The idea of ​​receiving a new life is a very powerful stimulus to put aside the bad experience of the abandonment of your ex, to thank for the time that you were together and the part that you had in the gestation of your son; Once you have done this step, you will be ready to develop, do not miss the opportunity to continue conquering the world, give your child security as long as you continue fighting for your projects, and go out on the streets as a consecrated woman. If you want to know more, write to bojorge@teleton.org.mx


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