• April 19, 2024

When a couple makes the decision to marry, plans begin to emerge for everything, except for one of the most important situations: privacy . But, have you thought that there are certain questions from the sex prior to marriage What should they consider and solve?

In accordance with Marvin Zuckerman , researcher of the University of Delaware , that the need for sensations, inherent in each person, is not necessarily evident in the early stages of a relationship , when love itself is a novelty and carries its own emotions.

You can not judge the rest of your sex life as a couple based on current experiences, because the sex will have changes with the marriage .

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On the other hand, Vanessa Marin , sex psychotherapist, member of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists , says that if couples they sat down before they got married to talk about their sex life , sure they would have fewer problems.

To start with the right foot in the sex marriage, Marin suggests that in a quiet moment evaluate the following questions.

1. Advantages and disadvantages? The key is to start with good memories to break the nerves , think about what gratifies you the most sex together. Then they can touch the sensitive subject: their weak areas to improve. In the privacy everything can always be improved and learned.

2. How to make sex a priority? So that the sex excellent work is required, that's why you should consider in what places and moments can be prioritized for meetings. When your children have already been born children They will have to hire a nanny or plan their sexual nights.

3. How do you think the sex life will change over time? While they are married many situations will happen: births, deaths, changes of work or home, the important thing is to anticipate what will happen says Marin.

They have to see how you can make a effort additional, be proactive, so that this does not have a impact negative in life (in the sex it is also important).

4. How will we keep the flame lit? We have already talked about the danger of sexual monotony in a relationship after several years of coexistence, to avoid it the specialist recommends that they talk about what the other wants to experience, sexual fantasies and interests.

5. What are we going to do when we fight for sex? With coexistence, fatigue, obligations, it will be inevitable that this happens. The frequency, the satisfaction or the breach will come up, have the phone on hand sex therapist it will save them from crisis.

6. How will each one nurture the individual in favor of sex as a couple? Not to marry you will lose the relationship you have with your body Y wishes . To be good with you, you must do exercise , take care of your weight, self-eroticize , everything that promotes that the sex as a couple, it's still spectacular.

Remember that these questions from sex prior to marriage they have the purpose of assuring them a life together that contains pleasure , orgasms and emotional union for the rest of their lives. Do not throw your advice away.