Take out the positive!

After a time of virtual interaction, you decide to meet in person who you thought could be a partner potential, but it turns out that after the first date you gave you a story that really does not live up to your expectations and you are at a crossroads, then how do you overcome a bad appointment ?

It is important that you reduce the chances of getting frustrated in a first appointment and that you learn to act with elegance if things do not go as planned.

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It is worth remembering that for a first meeting it is always advisable to agree on a "light" program, that is, how to go for a coffee, because it allows you to manage the times. A dinner or a lunch can be transformed into an eternity if the other person is not to your liking or if there is no "feeling" between them.

 

Take out the positive!

The time of the meeting has arrived and, even though you have interacted through all possible digital channels with your appointment (webcam and chats included) something is not working out as you expected: you do not like its aroma, your way of talking to the waitress, something tells you that it will not work or you just do not feel like being in that place, at that moment, with that person.

Do not despair! And better put into practice the following tips, which will make you get the best out of this appointment :

 

  1. Do not run away immediately. He is a being who, like you, is looking to meet someone special. There are hundreds of cases of people who have left a place leaving someone waiting. Do not be cruel, give him a few seconds to get to know him and enjoy some minutes of his company.
  2. Give a little time to create an impression on the person. If the first impression is not to your liking, take a coffee, be nice and look for some elegant way to let your partner know that you will not stay for a long time. For example, that you have a last-minute job meeting.
  3. Avoid hurting the other person. That you did not like it physically or that your manner of gesturing is irritating does not allow you to hurt her emotionally. Think about how you would react if I told you that you are more beautiful on the screen, for example, than in person. "Do not do to others what you would not like them to do to you. Do not tell others what you would not like to hear. "
  4. Do not close That that man or that woman is not stimulating you for a relation does not mean that it is not a wonderful person to whom it is worth knowing more. From unsuccessful dating have been born lasting friendships, incredible businesses and good times.
  5. Do not promise things that you will not fulfill. If you already know that there is no opportunity to build a sentimental bond, do not awaken the illusion of the other. Nothing of "we call ourselves", "we see ourselves" or of spreading false expectations. It is preferable that you appeal to some diplomatic variable of "it's not you, it's me" that suggests that it's not in your plans to reconcile an exit.

Remember that bad experiences leave good learning, so see as an opportunity this situation to not fall again or simply, visualize that you can increase the number of friends you have. And you, how do you act on a first date?


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