Shame on privacy?

• April 25, 2024

The media have planted this idea in our heads that within the intimacy of a couple everything must always be attractive, intense and perfectly synchronized. The problem is that, in real life, sometimes it is necessary to take things with a little humor. Check out these 5 "shames", which happen to all of us, and find out how to overcome them without killing passion.
 

1. The painful sounds. This is one of the most common and most hated problems. Our body naturally makes sounds when you rub against another. If it has not happened yet, it will happen at some point. The good news is that your boy has probably happened before and he will not be anguished by this. It is simply accumulated air. When it happens to you, laugh! A mischievous smile is all you need to lighten the moment.

2. Those that do not work. Watching pornography with your partner can be an exciting way to inject passion into your relationship, but trying to imitate the positions you see on TV can be even dangerous. Not all positions work, not all the movements that we see in the movies are natural and not all of us practice three hours of yoga a day to bend in that angle.

3. Know it. The first times you have sex with someone it is very difficult for you to reach orgasm. The intimacy of a couple should always be pleasant, but finding your rhythm with someone else may take a few tries.
 

This, too, happens to us all and the fastest way to find that rhythm is communicating. Tell your partner what you like, what you do not like and, above all, what hurts you. Do not be afraid to take control of things or be more vocal. It is better to talk with him in bed well than to speak ill of him with your friends the next day.

4. Where was the little ball? Lost condoms are more common than you think. A slip and you can spend whole minutes tempting the sheets. It is important that you always protect yourself and take care of these aspects of the relationship. If for some reason you lose the condom stop and look among your drawers for a new one before continuing.
 

Being prepared is not just the children's task. Always load with your own protection method and remember that 30 seconds of effort now can prevent many problems in the future.

5. The muertito. Each person is different at the time of sleep. Maybe your partner loves to sleep embraced or those men who put their arms over you and squeeze you against him. If you like this, go ahead! But if you have a crooked position in an uncomfortable position that will make you stand up with torticollis there is nothing wrong with changing position.
 

Smile and get up for a glass of water or to go to the bathroom. When you go back to bed, rearrange yourself until you are comfortable and in case he insists on the position, he gets naughty! Bite him or tickle him until he moves and find another accommodation in which you can sleep.

Do not let things become a problem, it will only be uncomfortable if you see it yourself.

Remember that, first of all, the intimacy of a couple should be relaxing and fun. Let yourself go!

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