Reinvent yourself as a couple!

Having a baby brings thousands of changes and new experiences to your life so your relationship of partner is affected by things you never imagined, but how to recover the romance after being dads?

your partner and you will have to learn to be dads and instead of spending your time in romantic dinners, you will have to occupy yourself in changing diapers and hugging your baby. However, all is not lost, they can do some things to keep the fire alive after the arrival of their baby.

 

Reinvent yourself as a couple!

Be affectionate

They do not need many reasons to say how much they love each other. Remember that you chose each other to have your baby! Look into your eyes as if it were the first time and hold hands whenever you have a few seconds. Feel how love increases.

Make an appointment and respect the agreement

They do not have to go out to an expensive restaurant and spend hours away from home. They can prepare a homemade dinner by candlelight with romantic music, when your baby has already fallen asleep. What is not worth is that a few minutes before they are retracted because they are very tired. If they do this, they can spend months without living together as a couple.

Organize a romantic walk

Go for a walk while holding hands and talking about your day. It will not take more than 10 minutes! If you do not have anyone to take care of your baby while you take a nap, take him with you in a stroller. The fresh air will help them a lot and leave the house.

Have a free day each

It may sound strange that we advise you to separate a day to recover the romance. However, you will notice that if everyone has space and time to take care of their own things, the time together will be more pleasant. Each one must decide what he wants to do with that free time.

Talk about you

When there is a baby at home, usually the topic of conversation revolves around him, his needs and his achievements. We recommend that you have the habit of, at least for 15 minutes a day, having a conversation about you and some expectations that have nothing to do with your little one.

Show yourself interested in what each one says, you will see that a little empathy will keep you connected.

Having a baby is a wonderful experience, paying attention is essential, however do not forget your life as a couple, because at the end of everything, thanks to both have a beautiful baby at home.