Podcast: How long does a love relationship deteriorate?

• April 20, 2024

On average it is within the first 8 months or the year where couples live the most healthy part of engagement . And although it is difficult to establish how much time deteriorate a relationship, there are certain clues.

At the beginning of the second year, another stage begins in the couple, the premature maturity , and it is in this small jump when things start to change and the relationship can be deteriorate , says in an interview for GetQoralHealth , Pablo Verde , psychotherapist graduated from Marist University .

The same relationship demands changes, you can not do things in the same way, because then everything becomes monotonous and you do not want to be in it, "says the expert.

The problem is that many people want to live in an eternal "honeymoon" in which everything is wonderful, but that is generally impossible , since everything has to evolve to improve.

It is in this new stage when you begin to know more about the partner and the "defects" come to the surface, what once seemed wonderful or insignificant becomes a inconvenient .

This process is normal, the key to follow together is to look as partner solutions that allow them to go through this transition without the love be damaged, and on the contrary grow to become something definitive.

If you are in this transition, it is vital that you and your partner provide each other space , none should be "over" the other with constant calls. They also have to be sincere always about what they want from each other and from the relationship.

Talk about everything with your partner, even the small details that you create "fools", to avoid problems and unnecessary confusions. Sean empathic to communicate and think about what your partner will feel with what they do and say.

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