Plan and be happy!

Have you already decided to go to live together? What should be taken into account before taking that big step? You must be aware that it is a commitment in which the two must do their part and speak clearly before doing so.

According to a study of Rand Corporation , analysis firm, living together has a different perspective in men and women, since for them it is a step towards marriage , while for them it is only a test.

 

Plan and be happy!

The investigation details that the couples Living together are less sure about the durability of the relationship than those who are married. Even, they register a lower level of commitment with the couple and little proximity.

On the other hand, Kimberly Moffit, Toronto-based psychotherapist , recommends that couples meet between six months and a year before going to live together. This way you will know if there is security and stability in the relationship, but what other things should be taken into account?

1. Main objective. Analyze what is the motivation they have for live together, if they really want to be together, it's just a convenience to get away from the family or reduce expenses.

2. Marriage. Discuss whether living together is a step towards marriage and what it means for both.

3. Expectations Address expectations regarding coexistence, that is, if they plan to have children, fidelity, among other aspects

4. Does it work? Discuss what they will do in case the relationship does not work, in what terms they will remain.

5. Holidays. Before going to live together, go on a trip to get to know each other better.

Another aspect that must be taken into account is the financial , how they will divide the expenses and who will take control of the house in that aspect.

Remember that the main thing in a relationship is the communication , so before going to live together, discuss and address all aspects of the relationship and visualize different scenarios. And you, do you dare to take this step?


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