Open your eyes ... even if it hurts

If you start notice some changes in your relationship partner , do not close your eyes. When things start to go wrong, there's always details or attitudes they tell you to your face, there are some signals that you no longer loves .

 

The psychotherapist Gabriela Flores, of the National Autonomous University of Mexico (UNAM) , indicated what are the symptom more revealing of the end of a relationship . It is better to be alert , detect them and decide what to do. The worst thing is to avoid the truth, for fear of losing the partner ".

Open your eyes ... even if it hurts

There is a lack of willingness on your part. If he is always busy, he does not call you, he does not organize plans with you and he does not make an effort to see you, it is clear that he wants to escape from the relationship.

You are not interested in your problems or projects. If you have stopped showing concern when something bad happens to you, you have problems or you tell your goals and projects, you are no longer part of your life.

Avoid talking about the future. Another clear warning sign is when you no longer want to talk about plans for the future such as getting married, having children, or living together.

Fight for everything. If it bothers you everything you do and always highlights your shortcomings, it's time to turn back. In addition, at this stage is responsible for blaming you for how bad they are or because the relationship is no longer the same.

He has stopped being affectionate and thoughtful. If before he was affectionate and surprised you with small gifts, text messages, emails, calls to wish you a good day or things like that, and has stopped doing it, the interest is no longer the same.

He no longer invites you to meetings with his friends . It does not involve you in the plans with your friends and it even begins to see them more than you. In fact, many times he often demands that you give him space: they do not look so often, or share so much, but still complains that you do not give him his "space".

When these situations begin to be daily in your relationship, it is better to take a step forward and not waste time in what has no future.


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