Love determines child development

• April 19, 2024

To raise children emotionally healthy, they feel loved and safe In today's world, we undoubtedly need new tools that allow us to achieve it, in the best possible way, for children's development.

What you do with them now, whether they are 2, 5 or 12 years old, will impact them and everything they do as adults. Because of this, it is important to be aware that you are raising Adults.

What you do now is to lay the foundations for the future. Now they are under construction, like a house that is rising. Will your construction withstand the forces and ravages of life or its foundations will be cracked and its roof filtered?

This will depend mainly on how you mold and shape your values, beliefs, behavior , ability to make decisions, as well as how you honor their individuality, nurture their talents and particular gifts.

Learn to love and trust at love These are the great achievements that make human development possible. It has been shown that the lack of love and of maternal care in the upbringing of a child, often produces the inability to to love for the rest of his life.

The fundamental basis for adequate human development is the trust in the availability of important people in the first two years of life, since a child requests: petting, understanding, communication, attention ; so, the child will learn to trust the love .

For a child to learn to love The first step is to love him. According to the psychologist Eric Erickson, the quality of interpersonal relationships in their first two years will be decisive in developing a healthy personality.

If this experience was not entirely satisfactory, the person will be very emotionally vulnerable and his only hope will be to find someone who loves her unconditionally (as they did not love him at the time), which will make him very dependent.

However, it is necessary to emphasize that depriving the child of frustration is as bad as depriving him of maternal love. The key is to find a balance between pleasure and displeasure.

The main causes of affective problems during development are fundamentally three:

1. The abandonment or lack of maternal care . 2. The discontinuity or rupture of the afective relationships in the first 3 years of life. 3. When there are many mother figures or none at all.

Affection is so important that the lack of maternal love it can even limit physical growth (height), because emotional instability makes them not eat or sleep properly.

To help you develop the training function better towards your children , as well as adequate strategies for the management of discipline, responsibility and self-esteem. We invite you to the practical course on the 25th or 26th of this year at the Be Better Being Center. For more information visit www.sermejorser.com.mx" Work on you ... that's the best gift you can give your children ... "  

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