It improves the coexistence!

Parents want to be valuable as parents, as providers and as an example to follow. And it is that increasingly, regardless of the level of effort, the most recurrent responses when seeking to communicate with our children are: "I almost never see you, you do not understand me" or "it's my life", limiting the relationship .

However, no matter how damaged the connection is, starting today you can start making decisions that help generate communication opportunities with your children, strengthening the emotional bond between them and the sense of family.

 

It improves the coexistence!

If you want to build bonds even within chaos, these 5 elements will allow you to balance the relationship and get closer to your children.

1. Guide it with a personal interest: Nobody cares about you until you do not care about them. If you want your child to listen to you, you must first listen to him. Show him a real interest in helping him achieve them. No one closes before the one who wants to support him to turn his goals into reality.

2. Guide it precisely: The limits give security and structure to the children. Never confuse absence of discipline with synonym of love. You are the one who establishes the rules (without going to extremes, nor doing it aggressively). This clarity in communication will avoid conflicts.

3. Guide it with consequences: For young children, their independence is their greatest interest, give them freedom. That is, help them to take responsibility by letting them know what the consequences of their actions are and complying with them when the occasion arises. This will allow them to make better decisions.

4. Guide it safely: Let them choose in situations that you consider safe and respect their decisions.

5. Guide it with your example: Show them values, trust and love so that they have a parameter to follow each time they address you. You will see the difference.

The best way to bond healthy with children, regardless of their age, is to ensure that love and respect are the main elements of communication. If this wonderful combination is achieved, there will be no time to cause conflicts.


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