• April 25, 2024

Start a New relationship It is always a complicated task. And it is that when you did not have much luck in the previous relationships, it is common to return to your mind the conflicts Y mistakes that you lived with your former couples .

In some way, therefear that everything is repeated and that this leaflet , is not what you expected or if it is the ideal couple .

The factors that lead to this situation, usually revolve around the beau in question and its stability emotional , however, not all are specifically in the DNA male, but they go a little more inside you.

Set your limits

An example of this is the case of Alicia , a 32-year-old woman who swore to have a kind of loving curse .

My life was complicated, I did not understand and that affected the way in which elegy to my couples . After analyzing what I did wrong, what I like and what I do not like, the border between the respect and the imposition And what kind of boy do I want, I see things from another perspective, explains Alicia.

For this reason, it is important that before starting with a new project loving , give yourself a moment to analyze how you are emotionally , and if you're ready to start that new link correctly, where fijes all right limits and wishes between you suitor and you.

To achieve this, psychologist Jill Murray , author of the book Destructive relationships, recommends putting special Attention in these 10 points, which are the basis of a healthy relationship , and therefore, of a promising courtship .

1. Ten preferences clear and act on them
2. Identify when you are happy or unhappy
3. Trust in your intuition
4. Have your own interests and hobbies, and the attitude to share them
5. Meet the difference between a healthy criticism and manipulation
6. Look for feeling full without the need of a couple
7. Reflect the decisions you take
8. Lives actively and not reactive
9. Engage relationships with people who respect your feelings and opinions

In addition to this, it is important that you detect honestly what is the reason real why you would like to start that relationship ?

In many cases they are presented arguments wrongs like: "I do not know how to be alone ", the feeling of deprotection , convenience and dependence economic, which cause courtships to develop and end on very bad terms.

By last, Jill Murray adds that as long as you have more clarity in your ideas Y wishes , as well as a good emotional balance, you will have more tools to choose responsibly, and thus have a relationship objective and promising.

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