How safe are you?

Having confidence in yourself or high self-esteem are essential elements to show personal security, both emotionally and professionally; However, do you feel it or just pretend?

The saying dictates 'women together or deceased', although in reality it does not have to be this rule that is always fulfilled. There are females that flow like little Caribbean fish with their cronies and harmonize totally no matter how high the tide is, and others instead make it difficult for them to be side by side in the club of the entaconadas.

The reason? They spend a lot of energy wrongly demonstrating security, instead of building it inside. You, how do you feel about this issue? How much personal security do you have?

1. You take care of yourself and try to be in shape, so when there are women who do not have that same condition, what is your body language?

to) Relaxed, I do not compare myself with anyone.

b) I look at them discreetly, but from the posture of my back you can see who is good to see.

c) Sign and with gesture of knowing all of them.

2. In the place where you are, a lady and lady of the planet of beauty, so it is inevitable that captures the eyes of all men in the place, like children in a candy store, you, what do you do?

to) I watch and enjoy his appearance.

b) I look at her with something of indifference, perfection does not exist.

c) I apply the classic look from head to toe, it is necessary to detect defects and details.

3. When you go with a colleague to the entrance of the office, do you give way or try to beat him at all costs?

to) I always stop and take the step, no matter the hierarchy.

b) Sometimes, it depends on the person with whom you go.

c) Well, I have not noticed that, but I think it happened first.

4. In the office, they tell you that there is the possibility of giving you some passes for a play that women in particular love, how many friends would you like to invite?

to) Few, but valuable. I'm sure I would spend a great evening with them.

b) One ... maybe two, at this point in life I do not have many.

c) I would give the passes to a relative or I would invite him to go with me, as friends as such ...

5. How many times do you recognize a quality in another woman?

to) Always, I have no problem with that.

b) Well, it is not often that I find something that I should recognize, but if it is, I do it.

c) I do not applaud anything, so it is very difficult for me to do it.

Majority of A: Total safety

You are a star! You have high self-esteem and I love that regardless of your position in the company, talents or situation in life, you do not need to prove anything, you are authentic and you show yourself with others.

You are just that little fish that flows perfect with other comadres without having to show off your appearance, economic context or successes, the confidence in yourself is firm, you do not have to affirm anything before anyone, continue with that delicate walk that projects elegance.

Majority of B: Shaky security

Chiquita, the next time it's your turn to go up an elevator or stairs, stop a moment to give the step to the person next to you.

That procedure affects your personal confidence, as well as hurting your self-image. Maybe people confuse your act with a matter of lack of manners, I do not think that is the case, what happens is that you seek to affirm in a wrong way, it is time that you reflect on the subject and make all your talents speak for you.

Majority of C: Security, which one?

My life, there is no reason why you are struggling with universal harmony, relax! The fact that you do not have consideration for others is horrible, look inside yourself for the beautiful that you have and poll it so that you can shine by your own light, besides that it will make you show off your talents, it will strengthen your security in an unimaginable way.

It's never too late to start seeing pretty eyes on another face and stop comparing yourself."Prudence empowers your words" Bojorge@teleton.org.mx
 


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