Goodbye forever

Forever? Figures of the National Institute of Statistics and Geography (INEGI) , they affirm that the number of divorces in Mexico has increased in the last years, only in the last survey 99 thousand 509 separations were registered. Although, why is it not must return with a former partner ?

 

An investigation carried out by the agency Parship notes that 71% of men (and 52% of women) have ever taken up a relationship, not because of love or affection, but simply because of the fact that feel alone ”.

 

Goodbye forever"!

Although a "definitive" separation is difficult to face and overcome, there are reasons that can help you not Return with your ex-partner

1. Total failure Couples who are in cyclical relationships tend to be less satisfied with their partner, have poor communication and make more decisions that negatively affect the relationship, have low self esteem and feel more uncertainty about the future, says a study of the University of Kansas .

2. The duel is not overcome! If you return with the couple while the grief period is not over, you run the risk of forgetting the bad of the relationship. There is almost a change in reality and you see only the good that there was.

3. Solve your needs and fears first . If you are going to return to your ex for needs that you do not have resolved, such as money, house, keep the family together, the relationship It will become a dependency and that is not healthy for anyone.

4. Has the past passed? If you are always with the grudge and remembering the bad, there is no sense in returning until you get over it. If you have already forgiven what happened, it should no longer hurt you.

Remember that only you can determine the reasons why It is not good to go back to your ex-partner. Take care and choose what you feel best about!


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