Does it bother you?

Throughout life the behavior of a person is changing, either as a result of experiences or new things learned. This also happens in the bedroom, and an example of this is the sexual habits, that are not always the ideals for the intimate health of the relationship of partner.

 

A habit is a behavior that we repeat on a regular basis. In sexuality there are practices that are preferred and therefore are repeated, but there are some that may not be pleasant for the partner sexual ", He says in an interview to GetQoralHealth, the Medical Clinical Sexologist, Mayra Peréz.

 

Does it bother you?

In the sexuality everything is allowed as long as there is respect and trust in the relationship. However, there are things to be careful with, and that is sexual habits. That's why the expert Mayra tells you which are some of the most frequent.

1. You lose the joke . Assume that you know everything about your partner, that your partner knows everything about your own pleasure, that what you like will also like him or her or that you are already attractive (or) because you were or have been been previously, leaving aside your personal hygiene and arrangement as well as the surprises that you used to prepare at other times.

2. Fake an orgasm. This can damage the relationship since it would be based on a lie. The couple relationship is a third between the two that you have to take care of, if you constantly pretend an orgasm or that you are enjoying or that you feel pleasure, your partner will never find out that something is wrong.

3. Make comparisons during sex. It is an act that violates the encounter whether you communicate it or not, you simply disconnect from what you are sharing at that moment with your partner, leaving pleasure aside.

4. Cut the communication and leave without updating what you like in bed. Is Un habit that takes routine risk and make routine a habit you will be able to find the novelty in what you think you already know about the other, you will cut off the opportunity to seek new and varied stimuli, practices or new fantasies that keep you from being able to explore and experience new sensations with their bodies.

5. Never make a habit of cutting off communication with your partner. Make a date (anniversary, biannual, five years) the opportunity to meet to renew your vows, promises, expectations, fantasies and tastes.

The expert Mayra points out that there is no single way to communicate to our partner that there is something we do not like, that is wrong or that does not go with us, however, always tries to speak in the first person and in the most honest way possible and with an open attitude.


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