• April 19, 2024

Although it is always a pleasure to share with the couple, staying so close and without your own space is not the most appropriate, the risk? Fall into a monotonous relationship in which paradoxically there is nothing else to talk about, because everyone knows perfectly to the last detail of his life.

Maybe you follow this line without realizing it, but now is a good opportunity to discover it and avoid that your relationship ends up walking on a tightrope

Do you dare to answer this test?

1.- You have been presented with an opportunity to go to work in a city near the one you live in, and it clarifies that this will not be an obstacle for you to continue together. How do you interpret it?

a) We will organize ourselves to be in communication and see each other as much as possible.
b) He is proposing marriage.
c) It means that you pack your bags to go together.

2.- Just two months ago they became engaged, how do you get involved with your family and friends?

a) I give time to go knowing them gradually and to create bonds with them.
b) I am interested in attending the events in which I know their relatives will be, and I ask them all how much I can to know everything about who is important to my partner.
c) As soon as I know them, I ask for phone numbers and I add them in how much social network I use to get to them, myself.

3.- You are a super fan of the gym and your partner really detests it, prefer to go for a run, what do you do?

a) I respect your decision and I offer you that from time to time we share the activity of each one.
b) I suggest you accompany me to the gym and take advantage of the treadmills that are in the place.
c) I do not think about it, I abandon my practice and join theirs.

4.- For you, how important is it that each one keeps his space?

a) It is basic, the idea should be that we share and that we have growth opportunities separately.
b) We need to be together to know each other better, the commitment must be to stay united.
c) There is nothing to hide, both he and I must accept us completely and if he wants his space it is because there is no honesty at all.

Answers

Majority of A: You keep in balance. Although you enjoy the time you spend together, you also have clear that it is essential that each one keep a private place and time in order to be able to enrich themselves in experiences to share them at a given moment. In your case, it is worth recommending that there is no reason for you to feel guilty for keeping something for yourself. Privacy is a right that every person has and that in no way is harmful to anyone, as long as you have the certainty that what you keep does not harm the physical and emotional well-being of your life companion.

Majority of B: We advise you to pay close attention to the way you interpret coexistence in a relationship, because although you have security in you, sometimes you give the impression that you want to make it very clear that nobody occupies your heart more than you. Give yourself the opportunity to go little by little without trying to appropriate your life and live yours, remember that sharing does not mean to stop being yourself.

Majority of C: Let him breathe! Maybe for now it does not seem so exhausting the fact of monopolizing your life and that you are devoted body and soul to the relationship, but rest assured that there will come a time when what you like now becomes completely intolerable . Both need to feel confident about what they are building together, and not confuse this concept with the fact of watching each step that the other takes. Start by retaking your tastes and hobbies separately, so that when they are really have different topics of conversation and experiences to talk.

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