• April 25, 2024

After a first appointment , some women live on the expectation that the man they like will call them and invite them to a second meeting; however, there are some things that a woman should not say on the first date to ensure that they will maintain that person's interest.

In accordance with Christine Gallagher, couples therapist , points out that the information we share with a person in the first appointment It is very important to keep interest or flat out away from our side.

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Do not make these mistakes!

The specialist and author of the book "The Woman`s Book of Divorce" , points out that the following issues should be prohibited for women during the first appointment .

1. Everything related to your ex . Forget the ghost of your previous partner, you would only give a sample of how you are in your relationships and how obsessive you are.

2. Your finances . It is not sensual at all if you share the financial state in which you find yourself, with or without problems, surely he is not interested in these moments.

3. Information about your pet . Unless both of you are animal lovers, it can be a bit boring to talk and encourage that only he wants to end the appointment at that time.

4. Diseases . The first appointment is not the right time to share your physical ailments or diseases, if you do it, the most obvious thing is to stay away from you.

5. Subsistence allowance . For you can be very important care of your body, however, there are thousands of issues that you can address, before telling you what you eat and what not to keep in shape.

6. Sexuality . A first date is not a time to talk about your past sexual experiences, or what you like or do not like in privacy.

7. Politics . This topic is very conflictive, since they can share different points of view, so something romantic can become a discussion.

8. Unusual habits . The things you do on a daily basis are sometimes not very healthy or attractive, so leave the subject of hobbies for appointments where there is a greater confidence and communication.

9. Desires to establish a family . If you want to escape from the place, you should only mention the word family, marriage and children. Forget about this topic on the first date and enjoy the company of this person.

10. Found emotions . Even though a long time has passed without you accepting an appointment or having a stable partner, he should not know about this. The emotions of loneliness and sadness leave them for your therapist.

For the first date you only need to show how you really are, your personality and your immediate interests, without going into the subject so much, since you are only getting to know each other. Remember the phrase "the first impression is never forgotten". And you, what have you done on the first date that did not work?