Best friends?

"I would like you to wear a dress as well as you." Inside a friendship comments, confidences and compliments are an essential part; However, at what moments a phrase that should express affection becomes envy, and why do not we realize?

According to the experts Mariano Chóliz and Consolación Gómez, from the University of Valencia and the Jaume I University of Castellón, in his study of Psychology of Motivation and Emotion, They point out that envy derives from the Latin word "invidia" which means the consideration of something with malice or wish of the possessions of another.

From these definitions can be extracted two of the main characteristics that are assumed of the envy. In the first place, a fervent aspiration to possess something that is lacking, but enjoyed by others. Second, a wish that whoever actually disposes of what is desired, loses it, or in some way is harmed.

 

Best friends?

According to the psychologist and sexologist, Silvia Olmedo , a friendship true is the one that helps you grow and be better person. Is that your relationship with your friend? Therefore we offer you some signs that will help you to know if they have you envy.

1. He does not care about you Try to get away when you have a triumph.

2. Do not keep your secrets.

3. If you speak badly about people, you may also do it with you.

4. It is not Honest . It hides the truth through false flattery.

5. Does not respect your opinion.

6. It is only in the bad moments.

7. It does not speak ill of people who you love

A study by the expert in Marketing Nailya Ordabayeva, from the Rotterdam School of Management, notes that one of the main motivations behind the purchases is the envy.

Remember that the life of each person is different and, above all, unique. Do not lose the opportunities, because of envy!