At this age men are more infidels

• April 23, 2024

In America, one in two people declares an adulteress, says a study by the University of Binghamton (NY).

Most of the infidels are men who are in what is known as the crisis of middle age, that is, they are between 39 and 49 years old, indicates the "page of infidels"AshleyMadison.com  

Among the causes for infidelity is that some men may feel old people at 40 , and from that feeling to think that it is time to have a second relationship that makes them recover something of youth.

However, it is not only youth that they seek, but infidelities also occur for the following reasons:
 

1. Boredom

The lack of time and the increase of working hours are causes distancing between couples generating a heavy and boring routine. For that reason, and although they are not recognized as a solution, many men initiate romantic adventures with which they hope to fan the emotion in their lives.

2. Lack of affection
 

When a man feels little valued by his partner, he tends to flirt or go out with someone else, hoping to rekindle the spark of falling in love and feel appreciated again.
 

3. To feel motivated

With the passage of time and the burden of responsibilities, men can see truncated some of their life plans; This, together with the arrival of the crisis of middle age, causes them to seek a second love life to feel motivated and return to dreams and projections.

4. To escape responsibility
 

For many, having a relationship outside of marriage is a way to escape from the reality, pressures and problems of the home; infidelity then appears to them as a way to live a more peaceful life, without the pressures of responsibilities or commitments.

To avoid the extremes of infidelity and the consequences it usually brings, the book After the Affair by Janis Abrahms Springs recommends taking some time to recover your partner, always be honest with her and seek professional help if you want to save the relationship.