3 tips to start a divorce

• April 25, 2024

After living a series of bad experiences, more and more couples decide to end their relationship after a while. However, separation is often not as traumatic as later divorce.

According to the writer and founder of "Emotional Hardbody Divorce Boot Camp", Christina Pesoli, There is a series of doubts and fears when beginning to live a divorce process, which although in at least 6 months can be overcome, it is necessary to have certainty about certain things to continue forward:
 

1. You are doing the right thing. If during the time you lived with your partner you really did everything you could to make things work, then you must be sure that it is the best decision and live quietly, both in the day and at night, without you overwhelms the worry. In this way you will make better decisions.
 

2. Hate is not forever. At the beginning, the hardest part is the dispute and the manifestations of anger on the part of one or the other, however, this cures the time. They will not be enemies forever, but neither need they be great friends to be good parents each on their own, if there are minors as part of the separation.
 

3. Do not take it personally. Do not worry too much when some relatives, friends, colleagues and even "your lawyer" try to see for your partner's cause and vice versa. It is best to take a healthy distance and allow your lawyer to do the job properly. If you make decisions influenced by your emotions, they may not always be the most correct.

Once you have overcome this first phase of what is considered a "duel", you will realize that in reality neither your social life nor intimate ends, so the next step will be to concentrate on taking the reins back to the right place you want to reach

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