• April 18, 2024

I do not care if you hurt me while you stay by my side ... There are relationships in which love becomes dependency, and this without realizing until the other decides to end the relationship; leaving behind, not only the relationship, but to us with fears and insecurities.  

So that it does not happen to you, find out if what you feel for him is love or codependence.

To begin with, the codependent is a person addicted to the problems of the other. He unconsciously manages to stay with him or her, not to try to help him overcome them, but rather to feel needed, appreciated and valued. For this reason, he clings to the couple in an irrational way, enduring and allowing emotionally unhealthy situations.

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On the other hand, here are some signs that it is love, according to the Hazelden Minnesota Foundation.

1. Emotional evasion

It is easy to run away from emotions, it is comfortable not to face. It is easier not to look at what one does not want to solve. Ask yourself from time to time what you want instead of always seeing what your partner needs, it would make a difference.

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